“Don’t let society fool you into believing that if you don’t have a girlfriend or boyfriend then you’re destined for a life of misery. The Dalai Lama has been single for the last 80 years and he is one of the happiest people on earth. Stop searching for happiness in places outside of yourself, and start finding it where it has always been: within you.”
― Miya YamanouchiEmbrace Your Sexual Self: A Practical Guide for Women
Are you SEX Positive??
For most of my life, I have been single.
For a good few reasons… the main one, I think, being, I have seemingly, mostly, prioritized my friendship relationships over finding a romantic one. Not necessarily intentionally! But my priorities in life have tended to be to focus on my family & friends. I have had a couple of relationships but I am absolutely not the kind of person who NEEDS one to be happy!
None of that means that I am not / have not been sexually active!
To much information? WELL, I am NOT sorry!
Sex is the most natural part of life, how life begins and continues. So WHY is there this stigma around talking about it openly? ESPECIALLY when it comes to women being open about their sexuality & sex lives.
Sadly, the world is still riddled with judgmental people, who dont believe sexuality should be explored, that there are just 2 genders and that marriage should be between a man and a woman.
Well FUCK THOSE PEOPLE!! I am actively ANTI homophobia, ANTI transphobia and anti-LGBTQ harassment and discrimination. Another big part of what I am about is sexual freedom and self LOVE!
These are core values of mine, and so when I came across LYKS, it felt like a match made in heaven!
The first step to having GREAT SEX, is being able to feel confident SHOWING YOURSELF LOVE and finding what feels RIGHT! Finding the liberation in loving your body and listening to it, most people dont realize how important that is before going into future relationships! So… thats where TOYS come in! Introducing toys & accessories into the bedroom with partners or alone, makes a WORLD of difference.
Founded in mid 2021, LYKS is passionate about revolutionising visibility of lesbians, queer women and non-binary folk within the sexual wellness conversation! Lyks believe sexual wellness is for everyone, as a normal part of healthy loving relationships with yourself and others, and this includes pleasure, self love, sexual health and most importantly consent. Offering a range of the sex toys for couples and solo play with a variety of vibrators, strap ons and dildos, plus essentials such as lubricants, toy cleaners and intimate hygiene products, all delivered in discreet packaging.
”We are a small lesbian-owned business based in the Midlands and whilst we may be small, we have big plans to support the LGBTQ+ community”lyks.co.uk/about-lyks
The Good Bit… What LYKS has to offer!
Everything you could possibly want from bullets, to rabbits… from lube to strap ons! And everything you can dream of in between.
Sexual positivity at its finest while supporting a small business!
Fantastic for solo or partner play, you cant go wrong with a vibe!
If you are new to toys then why not start with a Bullet! Its a classic for a reason.
Then there are wands & Rabbits if you really wanna knock your or your partners socks off.
Get real intimate and check out LYKS selection of harnesses & strap ons!
LYKS care about your sexual wellbeing as much as they care about your pleasure! Which is such a incredible quality in a brand. With a fantastic range of Lube options, batteries to keep your toys alive and well & even rose petals to step up the romance…. and even the bits you need to keep yourself & your toys fresh and clean.
BASICALLY… LYKS is your one stop shop to cloud 9!
Wherever you are, however you identify, whoever you love … you should be able to be truly & unapologetically yourself without fear of judgement or punishment!
And you deserve to have incredible sex! No matter who you are. AND you shouldnt have to include someone else for the sex to be great.
YOU deserve love, just as everyone else does!
Nowadays, Its not enough to stay quiet, we all have to SPEAK UP against ignorance! If you are lucky enough to not be in a minority which is discriminated against, you dont get to be silent just because you have the privilege of being accepted as you are. You have to STEP UP and and stand up for those who cant without fear!
Call friends & family out, start uncomfortable conversations and be the change you want to see in the world.
Moral of the story… Be kind, dont judge & always accept others exactly as they are.
& if you are reading this and are afraid of being yourself through fear of being judged or discriminated again, I am so sorry you are in that position. Please know you are loved, you are beautiful and you are magical.
Thank you to LYKS for working with me on this partnership, its a absolute dream & I am proud to be a part of this campaign!
This content is a sponsored AD in partnership with LYKS, through GetBlogged.
All opinions and views expressed are entirely my own.
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